A noticeable point of contention in the negro manosphere is the ongoing (and long standing) debate about the benefits and detriments of dating black girls vs. white girls. We talk about the fat that black chicks don’t like to give he’d while white girls live for sucking dick. We debate about their cooking skills, their submissiveness, and the like.
Some of us date one, the other, or both. We all have different preferences but by and large out of us don’t really discriminate one way or the other. If she looks good, cooks good, and listens good in our minds, it’s all good regardless of skin tone.
But there’s an largely untapped resource out there that yours truly has taken advantage of for the last half decade that brothers to start considering: Latinas.
As far as I’m concerned Hispanic females are the undisputed champions of significant others and it’s not close. From fuck buddies, to side chicks, to girlfriends, and even wives, the mami’s blow away all other females in just about every way and they continue to remain unchallenged.
I’ve dated, fucked, and been in relationships with Mexican girls, Cuban girls, Dominican girls, and I even messed around with a chick from Guatemala for a little while. The point is, I have more than enough of a sample size of experience with these chicas to know that black men need to start taking a closer look at these women for both short and long term relationships and here’s why:
They love being feminine
Girls of all races embrace their femininity when shaking their asses at the club. They know that men like feminine women regardless of their public advocacy of the “strong and independent woman.”
Latinas, on the other hand, tend to carry their ladylike auras everywhere because it is who they are. They love being sexy and take tremendous pride in their femininity.
High heels and long beautiful hair are mainstays for these girls because it is embraced by their culture. Even when popping over to the store around the corner they make sure they’re looking good. They enjoy being feminine women and it shows.
They will cook for you
This is another cultural element that Hispanic women take pride in. The ability to cook for their men is something they outwardly brag about to their amigas and familia. The old adage “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach” is drilled into their heads by their female elders from a very young age.
This characteristic crosses all generations. I’ve dated Latinas of all ages and just about all of them had above average culinary faculty. Hell, even the slut buckets I messed with could throw down in the kitchen. Pleasing their men with food they prepare is something they all have in common and neither age or notch count seems to make much of a difference.
I would, however, say that one drawback to this is that most of their cooking skills are usually limited to their native country. I dated a Dominican girl when I lived in down SoCal and the girl could burn. But I’ll admit that after a while I got a little tired of tostones, black beans, and rice, though very good, as a side to every single meal. Be that as it may, it was still a welcome alternative to crap that typical American girls with below average culinary faculty could prepare.
They live to please you in bed
This is one area white girls are on par with as far as the mamis go. Like white chicks, Latinas love nothing more than pleasing their men between the sheets. They never hesitate to drop to their knees and give you a toe curling blow job, they’re always ready to drop their panties on command, and if you want to fuck them in the ass, they’re down for that too without complaint.
Another reason fucking them is great is that their passion is real. We can all attest to the terrible attempts white girls and black girls make to mimic porn stars. All the over the top yelling and screaming and rehearsed lines from bad porn is both hilarious and pathetic and it gets old very quickly.
Having sex with a Latin girl, however, will change your life. The passion they exhibit is real, raw, and authentic. They want nothing more than to make you blow your loads and have an insatiable desire to be dominated.
The moans that emit from them are as genuine as it gets so long as you are passionate and dominant. Similar to approaching them, this takes a little practice. Learning to balance the delicate blend of the rough but romantic sex they crave is important. Once you master this she will pursue you for some Latin style lovin’.
Making love to a Latina is like nothing else you will experience with any other woman. Especially when they call you “papi.”
They’re straight up ride or die bitches
So long as you’re maintaining frame and dominance in an LTR, any girl will stand by your side. Latinas, on the other hand, take it to a whole other level. They’re not just loyal to you—they will ride or die for you.
If you’re in jail they’ll drop what they’re doing, contact your bail bondsman, and accompany him to the jail where she will sign her name to get you out. If you’re in a verbal or physical confrontation, she’s got your back and will often (loudly) convey this to your assailant(s). She will also dutifully assist you, often unsolicited, with whatever it is you’re doing—legal or otherwise.
These girls understand that you are the leader and that they are your first mate and will jump into that role without reservation or hesitation. In my experience, the allegiance of a Latina is unparalleled.
Yes, I’ve had other girls assume that role here and there but it’s rare on account of their outright selfishness (thanks feminists!). But Latin girls take to it with a fervor and enthusiasm the others don’t match, and they do it at a much higher clip. I’ve been in all kinds of situations with many different kinds of women including the examples above, and chicas consistently out perform their female competition.
As great as this is, it can be a bit of a nuisance at times. When you leave them out of something you’re doing they often take it personally and start to question your trust in them as your woman. It can also be embarrassing when some drunk knucklehead says “Your girl looks like she’d put up a better fight than you would.”
But at the end of the day it’s nice to know you have a woman who will ride for you no matter what the circumstances and that more than makes up for the few times their loyalty can cause minor inconveniences.
They tighten up your game….quickly
Chicas are a fucking handful—trust me. If you’re not equipped to handle their spirit, passion, or their hair-trigger jealously (which escalates quickly and loudly regardless of game, frame, or venue), they’ll chew you up and spit you out.
Latin women can be very intimidating. Their fiery personalities are another part of their culture they embrace. Incidentally, this acts as a highly effective beta repellent. Step to a mami with weak game and she’ll waste no time rejecting you like a weak layup attempt without batting an eye. I speak from personal experience.
Tight game, rock solid frame, and demonstrating high value gets you in the door. But when you establish true dominance she’ll go from Tiger to kitten right before your very eyes. Her expression and voice will soften, she’ll relax, and will completely and wholly surrender herself to you. It is a beautiful thing when this happens.
Now this is far from easy. Latinas are some of the wildest fillies out there and it is very, very difficult to break them. They want to make sure they’re dealing a man and will often vocalize this in no uncertain terms. They test your mettle with intensity from the jump…count on it.
Simply put, Latinas will make a man out of you as far as game is concerned. This rarely takes long to happen because their fire cracker personalities combined with their low tolerance for beta bullshit forces men to adapt if they want to be successful with them. After a few months (or years) of regularly gaming them you’ll find that your player power level has raised quite substantially.
Now this isn’t evident at first. Especially when your nookie nourishment is exclusively Hispanic girls for any extended period of time. But when you jump off the beaten path and approach white girls, black girls and other types of women you’ll find it much easier to slither into their panties.
In the end…
…if you put in the work necessary and baptize yourself by fire by approaching, failing, and interacting with them on the regular, you will quickly discover that the benefits are well worth the effort.
Now it’s not going to be easy. The benefits of gaming these girls are abundant to be sure but that comes at a price and that price is raw masculinity and game…both of which take time and work. But if you stick with it eventually you’ll break through and start having success with them.
If after mastering the art of snagging chica poonani you decide they’re not your cup of tea, your dick will be appreciative of your new and improved game which is a win-win all around.
Simply put, Latinas will make a man out of you.
Interesting article. What are your thoughts on Asian women?