One of the most important things a man can do in his life is to build bonds with like-minded men. Especially those of us who are brother pill/red pill aware. The reason for this is because the average man, who is clueless about the true nature and tendencies of today’s women, cannot be trusted and at the end of the day are not your friends.
When I thought about the friends I had before I took the brother/red pill, it dawned on me once that most of the time I was cock blocked when talking to women, it was by my friends. I’d be chatting up a chick and every so often, one of my “homeboys” would make his way over and inject himself in to the conversation and sometimes even try to flirt.
I didn’t think I had a problem with it at the time but what was really happening is that I did…big time. The thing is, I didn’t have the balls to confront my friends about it which is something I have zero issue with doing today.
It’s a sad but true fact that most men are not your friends and here are 3 reasons why.
#1 – Most men will abandon your “friendship” for a piece of pussy
We all hear stories about girls who fuck their boyfriends’ best friends or women who have affairs with their husbands’ best friends. We talk shit about the woman for being an epic slut and shitting where she sleeps (as we should) but a lot of us don’t place responsibility on the best friend.
Yes, women who engage in this licentious behavior deserve to be chastised, shamed, and held accountable but the spotlight also needs to be shined in the man involved. It takes a special kind of betrayal to stick your dick in the woman of your best friend.
“He doesn’t deserve you”
The questions that ensue after things like this come to light are “How could she do this?” and “How could he do this?” The answers to both are simple: She did it because she’s a woman, and women are sluts. It is in their very nature to have sexual intercourse with men they are aroused by, title of that man be damned. Best friend, boss, boyfriend’s best friend, neighbor, mechanic, doesn’t matter. If a girl wants to fuck, she’s going to fuck regardless of what the circumstance that man happens to be or not be in.
The answer to the second question is that he was never your friend to begin with. Sure, you may have been through some things together, known each other for a while, and so forth but any man who fucks your girl isn’t your friend and never was.
And if he ever thought he was, he knew as soon as he saw your woman that he’d have no problem destroying your friendship should she ever make herself available to him sexually.
#2 – Most men are secretly envious of men who are doing better than them
If you’re living the red pill life, you’re doing better than most men…including your friends. Sure, they give you lip service by telling you that you know you’re shit and that you’re kicking life’s ass but even though they know that what they’re saying is true about you, this friends often harbor an undercurrent of jealousy.
At some point they’ll start to tell on themselves with the covert off handed comment about your success. They say things like “Well she wasn’t that hot,” when you show him a picture of another girl you fucked that week. They also like to chalk your success up to luck with statements like “You gotta admit, you were in the right place at the right time” in an attempt to marginalize your discipline and work ethic.
Plenty of niggas eating these…
It’s only a matter of time before their envy boils over. This usually jealousy manifests itself in one of 3 ways:
1) He makes one too many off-handed comments and you finally take exception, call him out on it which escalates into a shouting match or a physical altercation.
2) He’ll start to distance himself from you (and you’ll know why).
3) He’ll sabotage you by talking shit about you to your mutual friends, trying to fuck your girl, hating on your lifestyle etc.
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It would behoove you to keep these guys at a distance when you identify their true motives.
#3 – They trust women more than they trust men
Our entire lives we’ve been told that women are made of sugar, spice, and everything nice. We’re taught that females are naturally virtuous and trust worthy and should be given the doubt in any and all questionable situations because of their honesty and overall goodness.
On the other side of that coin, we’re taught that men are inherently untrustworthy. We’re told that males are natural con men and that putting your trust in them will only lead to trouble. Most, if not all of this sentiment is endorsed and pushed by single mothers.
Men who are raised by single mothers have a built in distrust of men because of their upbringing and to be fair, it makes sense. If your father walked out on you and your mother as a kid, you’d have a hard time putting your trust in other men. But when the mother drills into our head that all men are not to be trusted, it does more damage than she realizes.
It all starts here
What this does is creates an entire generation of men who trust women more than they trust men. Why else do you think men are simpin’ for women at the highest rate in history?
Had 3 kids with 3 dudes? Fuck those niggas for leaving her high and dry. Her boyfriend stops paying her phone bill? Fuck that nigga, he’s doing her wrong. Little do these men know that the girl with 3 kids, cheated on all of them, and the woman who’s man stopped paying her cell phone bill did so because he found out she was fucking her ex.
The point is that any man who trust women more than they trust men are not to be trusted and they are never your friends. Again, you may have good times with them but at the end of the day, if he doesn’t trust you as much as he trusts his girl it’s only a matter of time before he shows his true colors.
In the end…
…the only person a man can ever truly trust is himself. Making friends with like-minded red pill aware men in this day and age is nearly impossible. And even if you find one, there’s no guarantee that he wouldn’t slip back into his blue pill ways should the right (wrong) woman get her talons in him.
It’s important to build strong bonds with other men, but it would be unwise to put your trust in men who don’t see the world the way it really is.
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Great work Donovan!
All poignant facts. This is why I have few, if any friends. I must also add that most “friends” that I have had were merely trying to use me for their agenda, and had little to offer to me and my agenda.
For the sake of collective power, if it is possible, we have to find a way to cultivate at least loose alliance as straight Black men.
????% true… We we all got them circling around this like sharks ????
Damn, come to think of it… some of us that have Sons that were trying to raise from Boys-to-Men (Red Pill Awareness) from our previous marriages and/or relationships, have a hard time reversing that woman simplogy (BS) that was pounded into their heads…
We Brothers got lots of work to do if we’re going to put a dent in this f**k up feminist trend movement that is consuming and negatively affecting us all in some way or another…
Donovan Sharpe, you did it again! This game you are sprinkling is on point. Those of us who were fortunate enough to have received that red pill early on in our lives have clearly experienced these issues you speak of, myself included. That being said I have kept my social circle VERY SMALL for that reason. This social dynamic is why I don’t even relate to my childhood friends from my old neighborhood anymore simply due to the fact my life’s calling required traveling greater distances beyond the undeserved community I grew up in. Some of my so-called homies have forsaken me mainly behind some punk bitch although these same niggas were self-proclaimed playaz. You see Donovan the bottom line is a man either recognize and respect true GAME or he doesn’t, plain and simple. When you do BIG THINGS it gets lonely at the top for the very reasons you speak of.