The majority of African women don’t know what they really want in relationships. They are confused. That is why most of them keep hopping endlessly from one relationship to the other. They are never satisfied. Give an African woman a man that is rich, she will complain that he is not handsome. Give her a man that is handsome, she will complain that he is not rich. Give her someone who is both handsome and rich and she will still complain that he is a flirt and does not have enough time for her. How can one please these folks for God’s sake?


Look, we have read a lot of books on pleasing women. We have read a lot of literatures on what women want. Or need. We have attended a lot of seminars and listened to numberless relationship experts on how to get the best women and how to keep them. The truth is that most of these strategies don’t work for most women. They can work for some period of time, but it won’t be long before you realize that the things that helped you get that woman can’t help you keep her. She would have found some new things that she wants you to possess.


Women are complicated beings. Even if you went to school to study woman science, they will still find a way to pull a fast one on you. You can’t study them successfully. You can’t study them and graduate. They are a very hard course. You see, you can give a woman everything she asks and she will still go back and fuck another dude. You can treat her like a princess, and a queen, and she would call herself a maid by her actions. It all boils down to the fact that majority of African women don’t really know what they want in a man.


Some African women will say they appreciate good grooming in a guy. They will say you need to dress well and look good no matter where you are. Most relationship experts have also asserted this by saying you never know when you could bump into the woman of your dreams, and therefore you are expected to dress well all the time. I’m not arguing this. It is a good thing to dress well but I’m not sure this is enough for some African women. They (some of them) still end up being fucked by carefree guys at the end. Black women are confused folks. God knows.


There are a good number of women who say they appreciate a good sense of humor in a man. They can fall for a good sense of humour but some time into the relationship, what brought them can no longer hold them again. They must find something else to fall for. They will see something else to die for. African women are Oliver Twists: never satisfied. It takes less than five minutes for a woman to know if a guy has a good sense of humor while having a conversation with him. But, that is not all you need to keep a woman. All women know that a guy with a great sense of humor can be a lot of fun over dates or phone calls. But, at the end, women must abuse this characteristic.


African women are always expecting African men to be perfect in everything, to have everything, to be everything. But, these women who want perfection in a man are not perfect themselves. Is it not funny when a woman with saggy boobs want a man with muscular body? Isn’t it funny when a woman with big tummy wants a man with six packs? African women are always expecting African men to offer them what they can’t offer the men. African women are always concentrating on themselves and what they want. They don’t care about what the men want too. It is none of their business.


I have seen a lot of broke black girls who want a rich black man. I have seen a lot of ugly African women who want a handsome black man. I know most of them who want a man who will open a car door for them to go in smoothly. But, most of them have nothing else to offer than the pussy. Or the saggy breasts. They want to live a royal life but they are not interested in bringing royalty into the relationship. If we won’t be economical with the truth, most African women are always looking for something to gain in the relationship. They don’t think of what they can contribute. That is why it is easy to kick them out when quarrels come.


Most African women are their own problems. They keep throwing themselves into problems because of their greed. They want a beautiful life, they throw themselves into the hands of any guy because of what they want. They get fucked by these irresponsible guys. They get pregnant from them. They get a baby. Or babies. And then, they get dumped after they have been used. These women were not blind to the initial red lights, but they ignored because of what they hoped to gain. After they have been used and dumped by irresponsible guys, they learn their lessons and become wise and start looking for responsible men to date. Who wants a fairly used product?


Most of the women who keep shouting feminism are women who have been used and battered and maltreated by irresponsible men. They are the angry women. They are women who have been wounded in their previous relationships. But, sometimes, it is not the fault of these men who abuse them and send them out. Most of the domestic violence we hear about are mostly caused by women. Women have a way of fuelling wars. They know how to beat the drums of war. They know how to sing the songs of war. But they can’t stand the heat. They will be the first to cry out loudly. They know how to lie that they have been cheated. They know how to play victims. I want to submit here that African women are their own problems. And their major problem is that they are confused and don’t know what they want.